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Marriage sensitive relationship you need to love and care and compassion and perseverance and attention of both spouses and any errors committed by the couple inevitably affect their relationship, even if they are very small things they accumulate over the years of married life to cause a large gap can not fix it, so to you six things that do not should you tell your husband.
In any country in the world there are no happy wife with her husband's family and always hate the wife to the husband of his father, especially his mother supports when problems occur between the wife and the people of her husband, but under any circumstance and no matter how your anger should never tell your husband that he, like his father or his mother because that would only make him realize how much you do not respect his parents and will know how much you hate his parents and also you hide the same hatred that hide his parents because of some of the behaviors of it and this will make you a bad person in the family.
If you have been associated with one before your husband or even married before never try to compare your husband the man who has knowledge of him and even if there was a problem between you do not tell your husband he was acting like the former man in your life or that former fiance was better than him , There are some behaviors and acts that can not be to your husband that controlled and these statements make your husband feel inferior and then feel that person is not fit for anything and eventually occurrence problems and permanent quarrels and some men consider the words of women from the former men in her life somewhat of treason and you do not want those ideas to destroy the marital life that unite you.
Both of the couple loved children equally, but the expression of love is different from men and women and as you are happy because you mother your spouse is also happy for being a father, so why come you feel that your husband is not able to care for children? It may be your spouse does not know to change diapers or does not know the secret remedy to cure the rash, but it certainly will know if the child cries because of illness and pain would take him to the doctor immediately , So you do not feel your husband never that he is unable to care for children and instead leave it with the kids and unity of days in the week and View-yourself ingenuity husband in dealing with children, this would improve the lives of married couples between you and do not forget Children are not the of one's own of you alone but also belongs to your husband.
If you've given to your husband something to do, such as cleaning the house or wash the dishes if I found he was unable to do it properly, you can not blast at him, saying to him you are you will be asked to do so on your own instead of that you have to post your husband's efforts and make him feel worthwhile and you appreciate his efforts by a continuation of married life between you And simply saying to your husband that he could not do the simple thing that ordered to do it according to your word to your child who is learning to walk he would not be able to run so you do not arbitrary stuff from seemingly your husband, who fend for your whole family that he could not do those simple things now probably will displease you later his skill. Men also do not like the inconvenience wife continued to do household chores They see it detracting from his manhood, but let him do those things on his own and let him surprised his skill and his efforts.
Your husband loves them and cares about his friends for their companionship and chose this despite the fact that some of them have a negative effect it, he does not want you know it is bad in the selection of people is simply chosen Are you also choose Worse done !! . You calm mandate I should note that the wife and wage war on your husband's friends will harm you more than is good for you. your husband needs a space of freedom dispose of them as he pleases and your expulsion from his friends such as the issuance by the death sentence.
Parents and family and friends objects curiously constantly intervene in married life between you and your husband also always warn that your husband might do this or that may Cheating or treat you in a bad way drinking wine or drugs all those same warnings you say the other parties to your husband about you, so if you find the husband began acting in a way that does not scare you go to your husband in tears, saying he has warned me that you would do this. The pair since the start of married life feels that others monitor, so do not go to him confirmed his fears to him and make him feel that he is being object in the laboratory tests.
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