Reasons why you do not know a lot of friends

Make new friends and owning a number of real friends and loyal is not an easy task at all Besides that make new friends as well as some social intelligence needed to maintain the sincere friends, and own recipes real friend is not cushy Unfortunately, there are a lot of people They can not own a lot of friends and do not realize how to make new friends and maintain and is usually the reason behind it that these do not exist in them qualities the friend's real. In this article we will learn about the main reasons that make some people are not able to make new friends and also do not have the a large number of friends and do not know how to maintain their friendship.

1. frequent complaint:

Sincere friends, are a good help and support they are capable of hearing the complaint but if you many of the complaint and is always talking about the hard life and the lack of money and labor problems Here will be bad and boring accompany you will not have a large number of friends will not be able to maintain its holdings of friendships Whatever you own loyal friends, the more frequent the complaint and grumbling will make them moving away from you and your friendship.

2. selfishness:

If you're looking for what will take advantage of it and you get it from behind the friends and friendships and always what you get them on the psychological and material support without trying to make an effort it be given in return You are here carry a great deal of selfishness prevents you from making good friends or get a number of friends or even maintain its holdings of friends really  Friendship is not knowing selfishness.

3. Control:

The existence of an atmosphere of equality and the challenge and the desire to control between friends destroy any friendship, however, powerful or old so if you own a controlling personal wishes from which to impose your mind and your personality and your desires to your friends ambitious goals will not have a lot of friends will not be able to maintain friendships known to lifelong Between friends have no place to control Friendship is fact is based on mutual understanding, dialogue and participation.

4. jealousy:

It's nice that there is a spirit of good competition between friends, this competition is what helps friends to succeed in life, but when the competition turns into a kind of jealousy In this time will be hard to continue this friendship so if you find yourself bear any grudge against your friends and do not wish them success and is willing to you shall be only distinguished among them know that you will suffer friends  farewell and will lose a lot of friendships because you can not distinguish between competition between friends and between jealousy.

If you find yourself do not have a large number of friends and is unable to maintain this friendship does not mean you shy or introverted personality, but means you did not have the qualities the real friend after.